In this video,  Dr. Henry Cloud asks a big question: Where are you? Where are you both in place and your internal state of being? Where you are in any given situation is a connected space, even if you think you are isolated.

Like a cellphone plugged into a power charger or wifi, it has the ability to become charged, and download updates and software. If you're sensitive to or blindsided by a conversation you can get hurt and defensive. In those instances, none of us are properly digesting the information we just got. Where are you in your connectedness?

Who you are connected to is either a force for good or dysfunction. Dr. Cloud uses his Four Corner model to help you determine where you are at with the quality of your connections. Using this model, you can find your way to real connections.