Small Encouragement
from our Pastoral Team
Please take 5 minutes to watch a short teaching that will help shape your night out together.
Guide Your Conversation
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A Strong Bond
A good marriage starts with a strong friendship. Use the conversation starters below to connect during the course of the night:
What's something God has been teaching you lately?
What’s one dream you have for our future that we’ve never talked about?
If we had one extra hour every day, how would you want to spend it together?
What’s one way I can support you more in your walk with Christ?
What’s a memory from childhood that shaped who you are today?
What’s something small I do that makes you feel loved?
What was your favorite moment from the past week we spent together?
What do you think our life will look like 10 years from now?
What’s a Bible verse you want us to memorize and live by as a couple?
How can we grow in prayer or devotions together this season?
What's something God has been teaching you lately?
What’s one dream you have for our future that we’ve never talked about?
If we had one extra hour every day, how would you want to spend it together?
What’s one way I can support you more in your walk with Christ?
What’s a memory from childhood that shaped who you are today?
What’s something small I do that makes you feel loved?
What was your favorite moment from the past week we spent together?
What do you think our life will look like 10 years from now?
What’s a Bible verse you want us to memorize and live by as a couple?
How can we grow in prayer or devotions together this season?
Love & Respect
There is power in highlighting things that you love and respect about one another.
What’s one quality in me that first drew you in—and still does?
What’s something I’ve done recently that made you proud?
In what ways have you seen me grow this past year?
What characteristic or trait do you most admire in me?
How have I shown love to you in a meaningful way this month?
What’s one thing you’re thankful for in our marriage right now?
What’s a moment from our relationship you treasure deeply?
How do you see God using us as a couple?
What do you think makes our love story unique?
What’s one prayer you’re believing for in our marriage?
What’s one quality in me that first drew you in—and still does?
What’s something I’ve done recently that made you proud?
In what ways have you seen me grow this past year?
What characteristic or trait do you most admire in me?
How have I shown love to you in a meaningful way this month?
What’s one thing you’re thankful for in our marriage right now?
What’s a moment from our relationship you treasure deeply?
How do you see God using us as a couple?
What do you think makes our love story unique?
What’s one prayer you’re believing for in our marriage?
Laughter is Good
Laughter is good, free medicine for your marriage!
If we made a blooper reel of our marriage, what clips have to be included?
If we were a famous duo in a movie or show, who would we be and why?
What’s a dance move you secretly think you’re amazing at?
If I had a warning label, what would it say?
What’s the weirdest meal I’ve ever made (or tried to make)?
If we had to enter a talent show as a couple, what would our act be?
If our marriage were a reality TV show, what would it be called?
What's a "just between us" inside joke that always makes you laugh?
What’s the cheesiest pickup line I could use on you right now?
If we made a blooper reel of our marriage, what clips have to be included?
If we were a famous duo in a movie or show, who would we be and why?
What’s a dance move you secretly think you’re amazing at?
If I had a warning label, what would it say?
What’s the weirdest meal I’ve ever made (or tried to make)?
If we had to enter a talent show as a couple, what would our act be?
If our marriage were a reality TV show, what would it be called?
What's a "just between us" inside joke that always makes you laugh?
What’s the cheesiest pickup line I could use on you right now?
Being Intentional Daily
Keep working on your marriage by being intentional daily about assessing its health and by leveraging resources that will encourage continued growth. Use the link below to access tools curated by our team: